Dear Laju, before I became a Christian, I lost my virginity.
Don’t worry about the past. What matters to God is your present and your future from the point of view of your stand with him. I always encourage people I meet to keep themselves pure. But let me say this: There will be many virgins in hell, because what saves you is your knowledge of Jesus, and not how many people you have or haven’t slept with.
Now that you are saved (assuming that you are), the holy spirit will help you to keep your body pure. You can trust in his help to always help you overcome temptation. But don’t worry about your past. A God fearing man will see you the way God sees you-as someone who is pure because Christ died for her.
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