I’m the Only One Taking Responsibility in my Relationship.

I’m a lady who feels like I’m the only one taking responsibility in my relationship. What can I do about that?

Taking the responsibility in what sense? Are you always the calling? Or are you constantly paying for dates? A man should be the one taking the lead. That doesn’t mean that you can’t chip in and support often. It could be that your beloved is unaware of the situation, men can be pretty forgetful at times. So you can patiently talk it over with him.

If however, it seems like he is intentionally trying to take you for granted, that might signal a challenge. But don’t jump into conclusions just yet.

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  2. joss says: Reply

    Hi……I am in a relationship with a guy who m older than with a few months…is it wrong?? And also few days ago we were talking and he said he feels attracted to his new female friend but that he is trying to deal with it. The problem is I feel that’s not supposed to happen in a Godly relationship or does it? I am confused… don’t know if I should continue dating him or if I should leave. Need ur advice

    1. Laju Iren says: Reply

      Hi Sylva. Thank you so much for your question. Please find my response here. http://www.lajuiren.com/2016/11/09/dear-laju-boyfriend-attracted-someone-else/
      You’re in my prayers.

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